A Plethora of Play
Whether you're completely new to BDSM and the Erotic Arts, are a seasoned player, or are interested in how principles of kink can infuse all areas of your life with more aliveness, play, and empowerment, I'd be happy to create a personalized session or immersive experience for you.
All my sessions are custom designed for the individual, couple, or group. When requesting a session, please identify a core session theme or two, of the options listed belong, along with desired length of session.
You are also welcome to focus your inquiry around specific fetishes and activity requests if you have them.
Check out my About page to see more details around my proclivities and specific activities that generally fall under each of these categories:
BDSM, FETISH, and FANTASY PLAY
THE ART OF SENSUAL EXPLORATION
A full on erotic feast for the senses. Experience the satisfaction of being deeply attuned to, reverently explored, and creatively played with. These sessions are inspired by the muse and rooted in an intuitive mapping of the terrain of your body using any combination of: sensual touch, massage, impact play, breath play, sound, eye contact, temperature play, food play, body art, and more. If you have an inspiration, bring it to the table! It would be my pleasure too make you my canvas and paint you with pleasure.
PLAYING WITH POWER DYNAMICS
Explore dominance, submission, switching, and the many faces of power in a safe, consensual, playful container. My approach to playing with power dynamics is rooted in my background as a BDSM practitioner, and blended with high integrity principles of conscious relating and spiritual activism. Do you have a lot of power and feel unsure how to wield it? Do you have too much power and want to unburden yourself? Do you sense that you have untapped power and are both excited and a bit scared to unveil it? Are you looking to reclaim your rightful relationship to power in the wake of trauma or societal conditioning? Would you like to explore all of this in the context of lighthearted play, erotic exploration, and reverent irreverence? Then this is the session for you.
Have you ever dreamt of becoming a living work of art? In this session I will use you as the material for a one of a kind art piece. Your submission will be in service to the vision; your body a canvas. Play may include paint, clay, expressive movement, custom sound experiences, erotic movement improvisation, photography and, of course, BDSM toys. This experience is my ultimate pleasure, and is inspired by the essence of YOU. Creative ideas and inspired requests welcome.
Pure, playful, ridiculously laughter-filled hedonism. Nuff said. Check the Irreverence list on the About page for ideas. That said, any activity can fall into this category if your primary goal is to let your inner child out, get super weird, and laugh our asses off.
THE TECHNOLOGY OF FANTASY
An in depth exploration of your unique fantasy. Whether you have a fully fleshed out scene, or a tiny seed of fantasy waiting to sprout, we will breathe life into what is waiting for you inside of your fantasy. I blend the principles and playfulness of Kink with my background in psychology, dream work, authentic movement, and various methods of exploring the unconscious, to guide you to squeeze the most life juice possible out of your fantasies.
HANDS ON INTIMACY COACHING
Are you interested in experiencing more presence and connection in your relationships? Do you find yourself curious about how to attune to, communicate, and utilize consent practices to create a foundation of safety on which to build anticipation, heighten arousal, and deepen intimacy? Are you ready to unwind limiting beliefs, fears, and conditioning around sex, in order to unleash and enjoy the essence of your unique sexual expression?
Hands on Intimacy Coaching is a dynamic, relational, touch-oriented approach to help you discover and enhance your intimate relating. Through dialogue and embodied exploration, we will identify your desires, play with your arousal pathways, and practice how to request, receive, listen, and give, in service to pleasure and connection.
Deepen your relationship to your erotic self. Connect with your power. Increase confidence, clarity of boundaries, and healthy self-esteem through learning to embody the Dominatrix Archetype. This is not only for people learning to become a professional dominatrix, or who want to integrate more D/S play into their sexual exploration (and also: YES to those goals!) This is also for those wanting to learn, practice and integrate the qualities of Power, Playfulness, Certainty, Clarity, Confidence and Dignity, into any area of their life.
Do you want to learn more about what kinds of activities you enjoy? Dive into what it means to submit from an empowered place? Receive traning in how to better be of service to the dominants/goddesses/mistresses/masters in your life? A coaching session is a combination of direct experience play and integrative dialogue/homework practices that will support you to be the best sub you can be.
Decide how much time and personalized attention you desire in our play, and whether or not to partake in a virtual or in-person format.
*I am fully vaccinated and always take care to sanitize surfaces, toys, and implements before and after sessions. However, if you are concerned about COVID/other health issues, or are wanting to take a small step towards the intimacy of BDSM exploration, a virtual session is a great option, both to mitigate potential COVID risks, and for the opportunity it provides to explore the subtler layers of power dynamics and the cerebral & emotional benefits of kink.
In-person: $400/HOUR up to 4 hours
$2,500 for 8 hours
(includes at least 4 hours of playtime interspersed with you taking me out to a meal, as well as time outside or engaging in a cultural or social activity/party/event. This is a good option for those who desire public play.)
6 SESSION PACKAGE:
$2,000 for six 1 hour sessions, paid up front.
I prioritize clientele who are interested in an ongoing play relationship, as it allows us to build trust over time, which leads to richer, more fulfilling sessions for everyone.
$10,000 minimum for a 48 hour, personally crafted weekend of your dreams. I am available for this option at my in-call location in Oakland, CA, or for you to Fly Me To You, or to fly both of us somewhere magical for a destination date. Inquire via email for more details about what our time together could entail when we have an entire weekend to explore together.
THREE MONTH IMMERSION:
$12,000 for a three month experience of 90 minute weekly sessions, text and email access between sessions, "homework" assignments, and personalized media sharing, culminating in a half day cumulative immersion experience.
A deeper dive into playful intimacy with me. This option is distinct from individual sessions or session packages in that you will receive my ongoing attention and attunement to you over time. The more time we spend together, the deeper we can go, especially for those of you that are longing for a good mind-fucking, wanting a more in-depth experience of worship, or simply curious about the terrain that can be covered with a steady, ongoing container of trust and rapport. Hint: It’s A LOT.
FULL YEAR OF MY ONGOING OR
Inquire via email for details.
ALL SESSION STRUCTURES ARE
ALSO AVAILABLE VIRTUALLY...
You pick up the phone and say “Hello, Mistress.”
I exhale slowly, softly audible, taking my sweet time to offer my husky voice into the space between us…
Your heart beats. Hard.
You wonder about all the things I might learn about you in the next hour, and how I am quietly weaving them together, week by week, in preparation for a one of a kind erotic experience.
An opus for your soul.
The moment I say hello, you are mine.
Inquire by email for virtual tribute details and logistics.
*Add $150/hour for couples sessions.
Couples please inquire by email about
pricing details for immersion experiences.
DOMME COACHING SESSIONS FOR
WOMEN (AFAB & FEMME-IDENTIFIED)
and NON-BINARY FOLX
*Interested in becoming a domme, or learning about how the dominatrix archetype can support you to build confidence, healthy self-esteem, and the ability to create the life, career and relationships you want?
Inquire by email regarding options for individual and group domme coaching. Offered on a sliding scale.
CLASSES, WORKSHOPS AND SPEAKING ENGAGEMENTS: Inquire via email for rates
TOPICS I LOVE TO SPEAK AND TEACH ON:
The Power of Kink To Transform Shame
The Technology of Fantasy
Psychology of Kink
The Dominatrix Archetype
Using Kink to Transform Conflict Into Connection
The Predator Archetype
Consent As A Spiritual Practice
Domination as Love: Right Uses of Power
Ego, Soul, and Power Dynamics: We're All in Submission to Something...
Role Play, Identity, and The Masks We Wear